Gay youth's killing sparks tolerance debate
Activists demand that middle schools do more to teach tolerance
The Associated Press
updated: 4:06 p.m. ET March 28, 2008
OXNARD, Calif. - Larry King was a gay eighth-grader who used to come
to school in makeup, high heels and earrings. And when the other boys
made fun of him, he would boldly tease them right back by flirting
with them.
That may have been what got him killed.
On Feb. 12, another student, Brandon McInerney, 14, shot him twice
in the head at the back of the computer lab at their junior high
school, police say.
The slaying of the 15-year-old boy has alarmed gay rights activists
and led to demands that middle schools do more to educate youngsters
about discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.
Police would not discuss McInerney's motive. But the day before the
shooting, King told McInerney he liked him, eighth-grader Eduardo
Segure told the Ventura County Star.
If King had flirted with the other boy, "that can be very threatening
to someone's ego and their sense of identity," said Jaana Juvonen, a
psychology professor at the University of California, Los Angeles.
Hate-crime allegation McInerney was jailed on
$770,000 bail on an adult murder charge that could put him behind bars
for life. Prosecutors also filed a hate-crime enhancement, which could
bring three more years if McInerney is found to have acted on the
basis of the victim's race, religion, nationality or sexual orientation.
The shooting has galvanized Oxnard, a city of nearly 200,000 people
about 60 miles northwest of Los Angeles. Several vigils for King have
been held, including a march that drew about 1,000 people to this
strawberry-growing section of Ventura County.
Like the killings of some other gay students — such as Matthew
Shepard in Wyoming and Brandon Teena, the Nebraska transsexual whose
story was the subject of the movie "Boys Don't Cry" — King's death has
drawn national attention and outraged many gays.
Comic Ellen DeGeneres, who is a lesbian, said on her talk show Feb.
28: "Larry was not a second-class citizen. I'm not a second-class
citizen. It is OK if you are gay."
'He wasn't afraid' Students at E.O. Green
Junior High said the other kids used to taunt King, call him names and
throw wet paper towels at him in the boys' restroom, and he would
bravely fire back by flirting with them and chasing them.
"He didn't like people insulting him," said his friend Miriam
Lopez, 13. "Larry was brave enough to bring high heels and makeup to
school and he wasn't afraid of anything."
Jerry Dannenberg, superintendent of the Hueneme School District,
would not discuss details of what went on between King and McInerney
but said students are encouraged to come forward if they have been
threatened.
He also said that King was free to wear women's accessories with
his uniform of white shirt and dark pants because the dress code
prohibits only those items that could be a safety threat, such as
steel-toed shoes.
"If girls are wearing jewelry, you can't stop boys from wearing it,
too," he said. "Each gender has the right to wear what the other
does."
The school system said that it has tolerance programs in its middle
schools, but that sexual orientation is often not dealt with until
high school. Since the killing, school officials have been meeting
with gay leaders about changing the program.
"With young people coming out at younger ages, our schools —
especially our junior highs and middle schools — need to be proactive
about teaching respect for diversity based on sexual orientation and
gender identity," said Carolyn Laub, executive director of the
Gay-Straight Alliance Network. "The tragic death of Larry King is a
wake-up call for our schools to better protect students from harassment
at school."
Abuse and harassment A 2005 survey by the
Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network found that more than 64
percent of gay and lesbian students report verbal, sexual or physical
harassment at school, and 29 percent said they missed at least a day
of school in the previous month out of fear for their safety. The
group is holding its annual "Day of Silence" in memory of King on
April 25.
The families of both boys have refused to comment. An e-mail
message left for McInerney's attorney was not immediately returned.
Both teens have been described as good kids.
King and his mother crocheted hundreds of scarves that were shipped
to U.S. soldiers in Afghanistan. The avid singer planned to belt out
the national anthem at his brother's opening-day baseball game this
spring.
"He had an amazing voice and was always singing," said Averi
Laskey, 13, a friend since elementary school. "He would stick up for
you no matter what. Larry was the best kind of person you could meet."
McInerney was described as the typical eighth-grader, goofy and fun
to be around. He trained to be a lifeguard and took martial arts. He
also enrolled in the Young Marines, a group similar to the Army's
Junior Reserve Officers' Training Corps.
Rough upbringings The two had at least one
thing in common: rough upbringings.
King had been in foster care at a center for abused and neglected
children since November, said Steve Elson, the facility's chief
executive. Confidentiality laws prevented him from saying why.
McInerney's parents accused each other of domestic violence and
filed dueling restraining orders, according to court records. Several
months before McInerney was born, his father was accused of shooting
his mother in the elbow. Kendra McInerney told a local paper she
struggled with drug addiction for many years. The couple divorced in
2002.
Jay Smith, director of the Ventura County Rainbow Alliance, a gay
rights organization, questioned whether teachers have enough training
to deal with gay teens.
"Those of us being out remember being bullied and we don't want to
see that happen to another kid," he said.
Original article: MSNBC
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